The secret to “having it all” is easier than you think.
Most people believe they need to:
But feeling great in your day-to-day life doesn’t come from adding to your endless to-do list. It happens when you change how you approach life—with tools to rewire your thinking, quiet self-doubt, and align your choices with what truly matters.
Imagine waking up to a life where:
● Boundaries feel natural, not selfish.
● Confidence comes from within, not others’ approval.
● Balance isn’t a myth—it’s your new normal.
The Real Influence Framework gives you the mindset shifts and science-backed tools to make this real. In just one session, clients go from:
➔ Overwhelmed → Clear & focused
➔ People-pleasing → Assertive & guilt-free
➔ “I have to do it all” → “I choose what aligns”
What if your fulfilled, balanced, successful life is closer than you think?
Imagine waking up every day with clarity, energy, and purpose—feeling grounded, confident, and proud of the life you’re creating. Imagine having the tools to navigate challenges with resilience, the ability to prioritize what truly matters, and the freedom to live life on your own terms.
This isn’t about “fixing” what’s wrong. It’s about unlocking your full potential and creating a life that feels whole, balanced, and authentically yours.
Finally, a life where you don’t have to choose between:
The Real Results You’ll Experience:
✦ Unshakeable confidence – Make decisions without second-guessing or guilt
✦ Boundaries that stick – Say no with ease and yes with joy
✦ Clarity on autopilot – Know exactly what to prioritize (and what to let go)
✦ Energy that lasts – Ditch exhaustion and tap into genuine vitality
✦ Relationships that fuel you – Connect deeply without losing yourself
Finally, a life where you don’t have to choose between:
This isn’t just “self-improvement.” It’s waking up to the life you thought was only possible for “other people.”
We identify your unique limiting beliefs, activate your desires, heal past hurts and create a clear vision for lasting change.
An 8-week Zoom experience combining live group coaching and learning to unlock mindset mastery, activate success, and support collective healing—one interactive session per week (recordings included).
Monika Vaillancourt
David Bayer Certified Mindset Facilitator, Teacher
For nearly 20 years, I’ve been a teacher in the traditional high school classroom, but my true passion has always been helping others uncover their strengths, overcome challenges, and step into the best versions of themselves. Along the way, I noticed something profound—whether it was students, parents, or fellow educators, so many struggled with self-doubt, feeling stuck, or believing they had to sacrifice one part of their life to succeed in another.
I used to think the same way. For years, I wrestled with anxiety, self-doubt, and the exhausting belief that I couldn’t truly “have it all”—a fulfilling career, a thriving family life, and the space to grow as a partner, mother, and individual. But when I discovered powerful mindset tools and behavioral science strategies (the kind often reserved for top performers), everything changed. I learned to rewire my own thinking, align my actions with my values, and finally stop getting in my own way. The shift was so transformative that I became certified to teach these tools to others.
Now, as a mindset coach and co-creator of Real Influence Coaching, I help people from all walks of life identify what’s holding them back—often in just one session. There’s nothing more rewarding than watching someone realize they don’t have to stay stuck in overwhelm, self-sacrifice, or “good enough.” My approach blends my teaching experience with cutting-edge mindset science, breaking down complex concepts into clear, actionable steps so clients can build unshakable confidence from the inside out.
I know what it’s like to feel lost, burned out, or unsure how to change. But I also know it’s possible to break free—because I’ve lived it. When I’m not coaching, you’ll find me navigating the beautiful chaos of raising three boys, partnering with my husband, and still loving my work as an educator. My mission? To show others that with the right mindset, they can design a life that doesn’t force them to choose—but lets them thrive in every area.
An 8 week immersive experience via Zoom, with a unique blend of live group coaching and learning, guiding you through essential pillars to unlock mindset mastery, success activation, and healing across generations and as a collective in a supportive, interactive group setting (1 session/wk, recordings provided)